What is the jet li movie where he fights in competitions?

in the movie he fights in martial arts competitions and is all cocky and then kills some guy on his birthday, then the son of the guy kills jet's family, then jet kills the son, then later fights an american wrestler guy in like a tent/circus, then later fights a guy on a giant pillar in the middle of town and the only way to get on top of the pillar is to go up these wooden pegs ont he side. does anyone know what the name of this movie is, or if its even jet li?